Friday, December 12, 2008

Shutting Down?

***Update***

I have decided to keep writing for me and for nobody else. If people don't like it or are too depressed, well then they don't have to read it. It is not for them, it is for me to be able to express all that I feel and I am doing it for me, not for anyone that reads it. Thank you too all of you whom encouraged me to keep going. I truly appreciate all of your support and kindness.

************************************************************************************

Thinking of shutting the blog down...had some stuff said to me about the blog. I will post later and let you know if I am getting rid of it.

Thanks to all of you who have read and supported me...

Melissa

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Melissa, I hope the reason for shutting this blog down isn't because of the mean "anonymous" bloggers... Your post sounds so sad... The right answer will come to you, you're in my prayers.

Nilia Palhinha

Devon said...

do whats best for YOU but dont let anyone make you feel like you have to shut it down...

been there with people making me feel guilty about my "depressing" posts -- you are walking an ugly road and doing it with much grace my friend.

i love you....

Anonymous said...

Melissa, Devon is right the blog is for YOU!! In the beginning you stated what the blog was for you and why you were doing it. People do not have to read it. Yes everyone has their opinions and some will voice those. You always knew that could happen. However remember what the blog was meant for YOU and is it still right for YOU. Don't let "some" take that choice away to keep the blog or not. ..... Denise

boltefamily said...

I am with Devon...do what is right for you.

Either way, I will continue praying!

asplashofsunshine said...

I know you need to do what makes sense to you and to your family. Just know you and your family are prayed for and loved (is that the right word?) in blogland.

Anonymous said...

Melissa,

I echo the comments of everyone else. You are doing this blog because it's what helps YOU, not us or anyone else. If you make the choice to shut down, it should be because the blog is no longer helping you, not because of what other people say. Hang tough girl. Call if you need.
Love,Becca

Anonymous said...

Melissa - I agree with everyone else. Don't let what someone else said make you shut down. No matter who they are. You use this forum to share and heal. Don't let anything that happened make you loose that.
Hope that you got my email (not sure if you still use the account I sent it to) and that we can talk soon.
Karla

faithful love said...

Thinking of you...

Laura said...

So much has been taken from you that you cannot control or understand, please don't let any person take away your right to express yourself, experience your memories and emotions, and reach out for support. Those things are yours and why you started your blog and it should only stop when that is what is best for you!